WHAT IS BDSM?


When ever you think of female domination and BDSM the first thing any one thinks of is some leather clad dominatrix charging $500 an hour tying a guy to a saint Andrews cross and whipping him for half an hour. Now that might be kind of true but there is actually so much more to it than most people realize. It is not all whips and chains and women wearing 19th century French masks!

Lots of people have dabbled in BDSM and might not even realize it. The
B and the D stand for bondage and discipline. Even a small, token restraint can be classed as bondage. If you have ever put a blindfold on your partner or tied them to the bed or a chair, even lightly by using a silk scarf, then you have at least dipped a toe in the area.

Bondage can take the form of scarves, furry handcuffs or even shoe laces for the amateurs who use this as a form of a fun fore play in our Free online- Royal bdsm cam chat rooms

It is, after all, supposed to be a turn on and all leads up the road to having great sex! There is, how ever, a school of thought that many who are heavy in to the scene feel and that is that is not about sex.

For many men in particular who are turned on by female domination they feel that any sexual intercourse between them, the submissive, and their Mistress , the Dominant, is wrong because they are not worthy. In fact, many get turned on, excited and like to hear her tell them how she will NEVER sleep with them and they will never get to have sex with her.

This highlights the way in which the Domme (or “top”) and sub (or “bottom”) are portrayed in each others eyes. One is not worthy of the other. At the end of the day, it is really all about power play. One person having control over another and the other person allowing some one else to have complete control over them. You usually find that most people have one personality or the other. IE a submissive will always be submissive and a dominant will always be the top. There are people who are “switch” and feel comfortable in both roles depending on their mood but in general, you will have either one or the other.

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Discipline with amateurs can range from a bit of light spanking with nothing more than feather light touch to using a common belt or wooden spoon. It does not need to be hard or painful (unless the bottom wants it that way) and can be incredibly erotic and a powerful turn on. In most cases, the discipline will arise after rules have been broken, no talking for example, but 99% of the time the submissive has broken the rules on purpose! When it comes to fun time BDSM, rules are made to be broken!

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S and M stands for Sadism and Masochism. This is generally for the more hardcore devotee of the area and is usually associated with female domination (femdom) where a strict woman dominates and controls a slave. To have the ability to inflict pain on another living being takes a certain type of person and this is where the sadism part comes in to being.

Submissives enjoy the feeling of the pain and this is where the masochism aspect comes in. To WANT that intense hurt is considered masochistic and it is in these aspects that “vanilla” people struggle to understand the appeal of BD & SM

The bondage and discipline aspects also come into play here but it is very much a more hard core and intense “play”. Rather than using scarves or joke handcuffs, with S & M you will find more intricate implements such as shackles, spreader bars, gags and St Andrews Crosses and even bondage tables where an unfortunate slave will be tied at the mercy of his superior owner and the discipline aspect will be more hardcore than a light spanking. It will involve the use of whips, riding crops, nipple clamps, weights, belts and floggers as well as ball gags and even full face masks which restrict breathing. The pain factor is ramped up higher and both parties will push each other to their very limits.

There are hundreds of websites online that cater to s and m,in particular there are dozens of live femdom cams sites with dozens of strict Mistress hosts who all enjoy dominating men and controlling them. This is one of the best ways for sub males to submit to a powerful woman because it allows them to submit with out having to break it in gently to a relationship. After all, telling your GIRLFRIEND that you “like her to wear stockings” is a lot easier to admit to in a relationship as opposed to you “want her to tie you up and beat you with a belt while making you lick her boots”! So by using female domination cam these guys can have a woman dominate them and still have a perfectly normal life with their unsuspecting partner.

So what can you expect to happen in a bdsm cam session by reading our next page it will explain the different types of sessions our Mistresses will carry out with you, some of the females like to use contracts and take full power, however some just prefer to do different training sessions with you every time you visit them.

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What to look for in a Dominatrix for a bdsm session

For the sake of this page i will be reffering to the Domme in the female aspect however the rules can also apply to the male Master . We understand at victoryismusic.com  That not everyone is familiar with what to look for in a Mistress whether it be online or in a real live dungeon session. Yes this website talks mostly about the BDSM Cams side of things.


I have had so many of my subs tell me they are not sure what to look for in a Domina and like everything else you have good ones and you have bad ones. This got me thinking about listing some things to help those who are new to the scene or those who are seasoned players but not sure how to select a new owner/Master.

I will be writing from the website/webcam side of things- However i may also do a post on real life encounters as well.

A good profile that states what she does and does not
Someone who listens to what a slaves needs are before starting the show
A good Dominatrix will always explain things to you if you are unsure about a certain situation
They will allow safe words and always adhere to the safe, sane and consenual 
They know communication is key and is what is needed before and after any session.
Will respect boundries however they will try and push them a little
A good Dominatrix does not pretend to know everything there is to know about BDSM
The best Dominas are living the lifestyle and enjoy majority of areas of bondage and Discipline.

Most webcam Mistresses prefer when a slave/sissy has a webcam so she can view you live


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What subs look for in a dominatrix Webcam show

The Femdom to wear the right clothes ( subs love thigh high boots with big heels)
They will always look for Confident, Powerful women
Have a Plan – Be creative with fantasy and Roleplay scenarios
A pro- Dominatrix NEVER has sex with her slaves
Always keep in mind it is not the Clothes and boots and equipment that make a Domme – It is her Confidence, self awareness, and thinking on her feet as well as her ability to be able to hold herself at any time.
Boundries to be pushed a little
New ideas and surprises
Being submissive losing control, being dominated
Some facts about Bdsm

People from all over within every race, religion, and social class ,profession,look for the services of dominatrices. Domina’s will probably meet carpenters, famous footballers,  queer and weird people, couples,  artists, scientists,teachers, clergymen, college students, as well as office workers and dads at home.

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